Missions minded: Families on mission - why serving together matters

(Photo/courtesy Jonah Easley)
(Photo/courtesy Jonah Easley)
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Some of the most formative moments in my life have happened while serving on mission with my family.

Two of my children were born while my wife and I were serving as missionaries in East Asia. In a sense, they were born on a mission trip. They entered the world in a place where we were learning daily what it meant to depend on God, love our neighbors, cross cultures, and join in the work Christ was doing among the nations.

Years later, I had the privilege of taking my oldest son back to East Asia on a short-term mission trip. I have served on many mission trips and in many places, but that trip with him may be the best memory I have with my son.

It was not simply the travel, the food, or the places we visited. It was the concentrated time together, the focused purpose, and the joy of watching him see the world through new eyes. It was listening to his questions, watching him process spiritual realities, and seeing how God was working in his heart.

Those moments are precious, and they do not happen by accident. They often happen when families step out of normal routines and say together, “Lord, use us.”

When people first hear about taking their family on a mission trip, the challenges can feel overwhelming. As kids get older, schedules become harder to align. Then there is the cost. It is one thing to raise support for one individual. It is another thing entirely to think about raising support for a whole family.

Those concerns are real, but they do not have to be the end of the conversation.

 Not every mission opportunity has to be on the other side of the world, and not every trip has to cost $3,000 per person. There are local, regional, and lower-cost opportunities that still allow a family to serve meaningfully together. A family can participate in ministry in their own city, serve alongside a church plant in another state, join a domestic mission project, or take a shorter trip that fits their children's age and capacity.

The important thing is not starting big. The important thing is starting somewhere.

Family mission trips remind us that mission is not merely a church program. Mission is the calling of every disciple and every household to live as witnesses to Jesus Christ. When families serve together, children begin to see that following Jesus shapes the way we use our time, money, gifts, and lives.

There is also something deeply formative about raising support together. Families often discover that fundraising is not merely about money. It becomes an opportunity for prayer, encouragement, testimony, and dependence on God.

 Children learn that God provides through His people. They see grandparents, friends, Sunday School classes, neighbors, and even other students give sacrificially so they can go. Those gifts preach a powerful message: the mission of God belongs to all of us.

 Serving together also strengthens family bonds in ways that are difficult to recreate elsewhere. When a family shares meals in another culture, prays with ministry partners, encourages missionaries, serves children, shares the gospel, or worships with believers in another context, the stories become part of the family’s spiritual memory.

Years later, those stories are still told around the dinner table.

“Remember when God answered that prayer?”

“Remember when we met that family?”

“Remember when we realized how much we take for granted?”

Those memories matter because they help children connect the everyday mission of God with real people and real places. They begin to understand that the nations are not an abstract idea. The nations are faces, names, homes, stories, and people deeply loved by God.

Of course, there are real limitations for some families. Special needs, health concerns, the ages of children, financial realities, and other factors may make it difficult or even impossible for an entire family to travel together. There should be grace and wisdom in how each family takes a step. The goal is not guilt. The goal is invitation.

Could one parent take one child on a trip?

Could the whole family serve locally together?

Could your family adopt a missionary family to pray for, encourage, and support?

Could your children help write support letters, pray over a map, pack supplies, or hear stories from missionaries around your table?

 Start small. Start intentionally. But start.

The long-term impact of family mission engagement is often greater than we realize in the moment. I think about a military family I had the privilege of bringing on a mission trip two years in a row. Today, that family is serving in Poland. One of their daughters, who was on those earlier trips, is now serving in Turkey. Another son is serving in Western Europe. Only God could write that story. But seeds were planted when they went and served together.

That is what family mission trips can do. They plant seeds. They open eyes. They deepen dependence. They strengthen family discipleship. They help children see that the Great Commission is not reserved for pastors, missionaries, or adults with empty calendars. It is for ordinary families willing to say yes to Jesus together.

Your family does not have to do everything. But your family can take a step.

And who knows what God may grow from the seeds planted when you go together?

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Jonah Easley serves as the Global Missions Pastor at First Baptist Church Woodstock, where he helps mobilize everyday Christians to live on mission locally and globally. He is the author of multiple books, including Beyond the Project: Reimagining the Purpose of Short-Term Missions, and is passionate about helping churches connect short-term mission engagement with lifelong discipleship.

 

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